A hero, and just a mother, a person in pain, a person learning every day how to love a baby, a life, that existed only inside my body. When these days engulf me I feel the anger come through again. This isn't fair. I can't take it!

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The World Doesnt Stop for Your Grief - Do You Want to Help?

We know from our research that connecting with others who know what it's like to experience loss in this way, is so helpful after loss.

So we are redeveloping our app to offer more support so we can help just a little bit to ease some of this suffering.

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Grief Doesn't Care What Day It Is

The Ellie's gift app is a free baby loss support app to help support people during and following baby loss.

We have a new community space coming soon where parents can connect with others parents no matter what time of day in a safe and confidential space.

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What Helps You With Grief?

Words by Lucy Livesey - Founder of Relax With Lucy & Co and Ellie’s mum.

When we lost ellie, I remember our grief felt unbearable, Ellie died when the Manchester Arena bombing had happened and there was so much sadness around us ontop of what had just happened. Our baby Ellie passed away at under 24 weeks, following her passing it was a hard time. Some days the physical and emotional pain felt too hard to carry, but we did, because we had to figure out how to move forward. Read on to find out what helped us.

We Need Your Help

The Ellie's gift app is an app that was developed to help support families experiencing baby loss before, during and following birth 😔

Our story with the app began when we launched our prototype app in 2020 and since this time we have been working hard laying the foundations down to take our app to the next level of support. We are proud to say that we now have support from the NHS and in addition to this have been awarded more funding to take our app through phase one of our redevelopment stage.

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New Year & New Project Launch

The Ellie’s Gift Project has been set up to help support the baby loss community through the provision of wellbeing interventions. This year we are proud to move forward with the support from the NHS and have been awarded further funding to develop the apps capabilities and support

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